When your child faces the loss of someone close, their world no longer feels safe. Grief and its aftermath take us all by surprise, but even more so children, who don’t have the words or tools to face grief and can respond with fear, withdrawal, and other behaviors. How do you help your child with their fear and sadness, especially if you are also grieving? How can you help them see that God is both big and loving?
Counselor and author Bob Kellemen helps parents understand the challenges their child is facing and guides them in how to navigate with their child the long and difficult road of lament and recovery. Giving a child permission to grieve, practicing lingering listening, and sharing your own struggles and Scripture are all part of the process. As parents help children experience their grief face-to-face with Christ, they will discover that understanding his compassionate comfort is key to finding healing and hope. Because of Jesus’s resurrection, they can have the reassurance that life triumphs over death.
AUTHOR
Bob Kellemen, ThM, PhD is Academic Dean, Dean of Students, and Professor of Biblical Counseling at Faith Bible Seminary in Lafayette, Indiana. Bob is also the Founder and CEO of RPM Ministries, through which he speaks, writes, and consults on biblical counseling and Christian living. Dr. Kellemen served as the founding Executive Director of the Biblical Counseling Coalition. Bob and his wife, Shirley, have been married for forty years and have two adult children and three granddaughters. He is the author of twenty books, including Gospel-Centered Counseling, Gospel Conversations, and Consider Your Counsel.
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I'm the Minister of Biblical Counseling at my church & was in search of resources to aid in counseling a family whose husband & father recently passed away from cancer. There is the widow, whom I am currently meeting with every week. There are also 4 children, ages 8-14, whom I will soon begin meeting with on an individual basis. I have reviewed this booklet & found it to be very informative & instructive for parents. I gave a copy to the widow I just mentioned. There's helpful information to aid in counseling children through the grief process as well for a Biblical Counselor. I will recommend this booklet to others as the need arises.
Dr. Bob Kellemen has crafted a purposeful booklet for parents to help their grieving child, but this booklet is also a tool for anyone who is caring for a grieving child. As a counselor working with children and teens, the four Journey Markers has given me a guide to help kids through their grief journey. Likewise, if I have the opportunity to counsel with the mother's of grieving children, the Parental Grief Ministry Principles gives hope to a mom who is sad for her grieving child. She is able to journey through her grief at the same time ministering to her child. Both parent and child experience Christ's comfort resulting in hope and healing!