Promises in the Dark by Dr. Eric McLaughlin strengthens the hearts of readers to persevere in God's calling to walk with those in need. As a missionary doctor in Africa, McLaughlin knows how walking closely with those who suffer and bearing others' burdens can easily lead to burnout or cynicism unless we find the path to perseverance that the Lord provides.
This resource explores how to find both calling and hope, living in the tension between a difficult present and God's promises of renewal, how to cope with despair and futility, the importance of the suffering God for those who suffer, and how the manifestations of God bring life into a dying world.
McLaughlin explores how to endure in such a yet-to-be-redeemed world as ours, which is full of tragedy and heartache, pointing to God's promises.
"As a missionary coworker of Eric's for two years in Kenya, I attest that these 'promises in the dark' arise from the heart of a humble servant of Christ whom God has gifted with profound insight for the challenges faced in caring for the sick and dying without losing hope. Each chapter, and the discussion questions that follow, will serve as powerful tools for personal or group discipleship."
Mike Chupp, MD, FACS, FCS (ECSA), Chief Executive Officer, Christian Medical and Dental Associations
"Eric McLaughlin brought me to tears with this honest look at the difficulties of the life of a compassionate caregiver. When dealing with this broken world, there are no simple answers. But there can be hope. Promises in the Dark is essential reading for anyone who walks with others through suffering and questions how to keep on going."
Dr. Kent Brantly, Ebola survivor; coauthor of Called for Life
"Why do we love lawyer and doctor shows? We know both worlds bear extremity, suffering, and passion, and that is at the core of what intrigues and terrifies us. Eric McLaughlin, a missionary physician, engages the raw and compelling questions of what it means to be human and trust God in the face of a world that is stark and at times cruel. Eric offers no simple answers or trite truisms. Instead, he invites us to engage the questions with the confidence that there is nothing we face that Jesus has not first entered. The song sung in this brilliant book is that death is real and horrible, far more so than our antiseptic Western world can bear, but death never gets the final word. There is something about life and love that lingers far longer than heartache, and it is this story that enables us to enter all other losses with hope. This book will intensify your passion and encourage you to live the best story ever told."
Dan B. Allender, Professor of Counseling Psychology and Founding President, The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology
"Eric McLaughlin's new book, Promises in the Dark: Walking with Those in Need Without Losing Heart, profoundly impacted me at many levels. As a pastor, friend, and family member, I've walked in many stories of brokenness, illness, and loss which have left me feeling overwhelmed and helpless, and frustrated because I couldn't fix things. I came away from Eric's book realizing, once again, that God's promises claim us more than we claim them. The pressure is off. We're called to be servant-lovers, not omnicompetent-fixers. Hope is certain because of Jesus's resurrection and return, but life between those glorious markers is anything but predictable and controllable. This book will be an invaluable guide for many who are tired of empty clichs and baseless formulas and long for honest reflections and encouragement for loving well, even when the healing doesn't come."
Scotty Smith, Pastor Emeritus, Christ Community Church, Franklin, TN; teacher in residence, West End Community Church, Nashville, TN
"What does a lived-out faith look like in the throes of an African field hospital? In a world of disease, death, and brokenness of broken promises how does one live as a light to the world? The answers to these questions are to be found in the pages of this honest book."
Michael Card, Songwriter, Bible teacher
"Brilliant prose! Gripping stories! Profound discernments! I love this book and will be recommending it to everyone I know."
Dr. David Stevens, CEO Emeritus, Christian Medical & Dental Associations; author of Jesus, M.D.
"Promises in the Dark provides a transparent account of the arduous and even sometimes despairing work of medical missions in the field. McLaughlin wrestles with questions of theodicy in this book in the context of extreme poverty and disease in developing nations, and he finds hope and solace in a return to the promises of God in life and love. This book is not for the faint of heart."
Jenny Eaton Dyer, Founder, The 2030 Collaborative
"Dr. Eric McLaughlin has walked with those who suffer. For over a decade, he has served patients well in East Africa through sacrificial medical care, and has witnessed the abject suffering of many. Yet he has heard the healing whisper of God; his voice quietly yet convincingly projecting promise of ever-present hope and inexplicable miracles. If we too are to walk with those who suffer and not lose heart, it is imperative to remember the promises of God. Dr. McLaughlin has most articulately crafted a must-read book for those who serve and hold the hand of those in need."
Dr. Lance Plyler, Director, World Medical Mission; a ministry of Samaritan's Purse
"Promises in the Dark is a warm lamplight to accompany pilgrims whose progress has been dampened by the doubt and discouragement that often pervade those who live amid scenes of persisting darkness. These words can give even the weariest of souls the courage to utter once more, 'Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.'"
Andrew Greer, Dove AwardÐnominated singer-songwriter; author; television host of the Amazon Prime show Dinner Conversations with Mark Lowry and Andrew Greer
"To serve and live among the poor is not an easy road. I've seen firsthand what taking on the responsibility of the health and well-being of a rural African village looks like. It's a walk with suffering and slow, small victories. McLaughlin and his brave community of doctors have willfully brought their families behind the dark curtain of poverty in one of the poorest corners on earth. There are stories of hard-fought hope here, along with haunting brushes with life and death. McLaughlin shows us how the burden of knowledge and conviction are gifts not to be wasted. God's promises of faith, hope, and love far outweigh the doubts and disappointments."
Brandon Heath, GRAMMY®-nominated, Dove AwardÐwinning recording artist
"Ministry to those who acutely experience sin's effects in this world leads many Christians to reconsider their calling. For those at risk of having compassion and optimism replaced by despair and cynicism, Eric McLaughlin offers much-needed hope. This hope is anchored in the promises and character of God himself. The reader will not only empathize with Eric's honest confessions, but identify how they too can actuate these life-giving Truths."
Mark Tatlock, President, The Master's Academy International
"I had to stop repeatedly, often in tears, to respond to what God stirred in my heart as I read Eric's articulate account of life in an African hospital where many die, often after much prayer for healing, with evidence pointing to recovery, yet others healed when that appeared impossible. Both experiences kept bringing Eric back to God's Suffering Redeemer Son Jesus. Eric's book is so passionate, articulate, raw honest dealing with death when it looks like that person would have recovered and when many prayers had been offered for their healing, but also rejoicing when all evidence would point to death and some recover to health."
Don Finto, Author; Pastor Emeritus, Belmont Church, Nashville, Founder, Caleb Company
"Real, honest, vulnerable, and with a depth that strikes the core is how I would describe this book. If you have served in areas of need, you can relate to each story. It gives opportunity for discussions on very pertinent issues, and maybe as we face the uncertainties and many questions with openness shall we turn to the Author and Perfecter of our faith."
Dr. Matilda Ong'ondi, Physician and Clinical Hemato-oncologist, Kenya
"There are many books exhorting Christians to go and serve the Lord in cross-cultural contexts, but few that are meant to be read while wrestling through the sorrows and struggles they'll encounter in those situations. Eric McLaughlin has written such a book, indispensable for all who feel the pain of death and suffering in their day-to-day work."
Matthew Loftus, Missionary Physician in Kenya and writer at MereOrthodoxy.com
"Promises in the Dark is a profound, realistic, and thought-provoking book that offers insight into the daily struggles of a missionary doctor serving disadvantaged populations. There is a shining light amidst darkness of insufficiency, despair, and hopelessness in the loving sacrifice and mercy of our Savior Jesus, who has called us to his labor. I recommend it to every coworker in the front lines of Christian service."
Dr. Castro Mugalla, Family Physician, Iten County Referral Hospital, Iten, Kenya
I was deeply moved by this book. The authors real, painful, and beautiful experience is so meaningful to anyone in a caring profession. His insights run deep, but not too long, and are immensely practical for a hard life of caring for others. I don’t only recommend this book, I basically got one for everyone for Christmas.
Eric shares the truth of hard that encourages the reader. While easy to read there are deep nuggets throughout the book.
Wonderful book, should be required reading for anyone headed to work or serve in a resource limited medical setting.
Painful at times, but liked the courage and honesty of the writing. Talking about the hard questions is helpful to all of us who are walking together, following Jesus, trying to do our best.
Wow, this is one of the best books I have ever read. Every teacher, doctor, social worker, first responder, and minister would appreciate this book. If you've ever wondered if what you are doing is worthwhile or is making a difference, if God is good, why prayers go unanswered, if you're becoming weary in the face of evil and death, then Promises in the Dark is a must-read. Written by a missionary doctor in a poor area of Africa, this book does not give pat answers or solutions, but it gives great hope and encouragement, reminding us that God is Love and shows how to have faith even when we don't understand. I cried the whole way through.
T.S. Eliot once set out to discover why so much religious poetry was bad. He knew plenty of intelligent and talented Christians, so what was the issue? His conclusion was simple—religious poetry was often bad because the poet expressed how they thought they should feel, rather than how they felt. I think he nailed it. And we can use that insight to identify part of what makes some writing about faith and religion so bitingly good. The Psalms, for example. No sugar-coating going on there. "A Grief Observed," CS Lewis's raw and powerful response to his wife's death. Eric McLaughlin's book belongs in the same category. This is a book not about how a medical missionary serving the poorest of the poor is supposed to feel, but how he feels. Honesty, along with a clean and accessible prose style, makes this a crucial read for anyone who's ever tried to help others—or turned away from helping, for fear that their help might not be enough. Why don't more of us help people who are suffering? I believe one of the reasons is that getting involved exposes us to tragedy and pain. This book offers an antidote to that inaction, not by pretending tragedy won't happen, but by acknowledging it, working through it, and teaching us how to live through it, rather than running from it. It'll take you a day or two to read this book, and it'll take you the rest of your life to practice what you learn.
I am now on the last chapter, and can say this book came at a very timely point in world history. The Coronavirus has hit unexpectedly, and has sent people into despair and panic with the degree of uncertainty and suffering it has left in its wake. This book is pertinent because Eric is a physician analyzing physical suffering. It is encouraging because Eric is holding forth the hope that the gospel brings even in the midst of what seems like hopelessness. It is readable, and kept me turning pages. I'm not very good at finishing a book, but this was one that made it to the finish line. Highly recommend, and know it will greatly encourage medical personnel specifically. They need to read it!
Dr. McLaughlin wears his heart on his sleeve in the best possible way in this encouragingly, heart-wrenching little book. Only one who has a lengthy walk such as his can dare to share as he has. We all will walk through seasons of darkness, so 'Promises in the Dark' is a sweet balm when we do. But I love that the author's focus is upon those of us who make the conscious decision to walk alongside those who have been overwhelmed with hopelessness. I am certain that this will be a text I will refer to regularly over the course of my life. If you are one who is called to love the wounded and broken, I so hope that you will find this to be a source of encouragement to the degree that I have.
This is for anyone working through what it means to cling to God’s promises while facing hard times, both your own and that of others. Eric and his wife serve as medical missionaries in Africa and he has written this book as a reflection on what it means to walk with those in need without losing heart. Each chapter starts with a story of his own experience that introduces the point, and then he leads the reader to God’s word and God’s character, fleshing out the implications, both in his own situation but also further afield. Each chapter finishes with some questions for reflection, which bring the reader very closely to the issue, considering their own response to God, who he is and and how he acts. Chapters address topics such as: promise, despair, hope, time, ordinary, prayer, suffering, mystery, consolation, resurrection and redemption. I believe it would be excellent reading for anyone on the mission field (whether doctors in Africa or in other roles), but also anyone who wonders what it means to continue to cling to the promises and character of God when life is challenging.
I found PROMISES IN THE DARK to be true to the title. Eric is a doctor to the under-served people in Africa. He has seen some pretty hard cases, which stacked together seems hopeless causing burn-out. He discusses some difficult topics with unforgettable stories of unforgettable people. His points are simple, but deep. At the end of each chapter he has provided some questions that can be used as a discussion guide or personal reflection. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is working in situations where hope quickly becomes challenged by the day to day routines.