A Big Change Happened helps children who are facing a move, starting a new school, or adjusting to a new family dynamic process their feelings through the story of Wallace the whale.
Wallace Whale loves his home in the warm blue sea near the green island where he and Mama sing, eat, sleep, and play. But one day, Mama tells him about a big change—they’re leaving for a long journey North! Wallace is worried and has so many questions: What will the North be like? Will he be okay? As they swim into the unknown, Mama gently reminds Wallace: Wherever you go, whatever you do, God’s love follows you.
Counselor Darby A. Strickland uses the story of Wallace along with Psalm 139 to help parents and caregivers walk with children through big changes and the questions that come with those changes. A special section at the end of the book helps parents and caregivers guide their children through accepting their new situation and uses biblical truths to reassure children that God’s love never changes.
“With eye-catching illustrations and an imagination-activating story, Darby Strickland takes a common fear and crafts a story that will help children in times of change to rest in the unchanging presence and promises of God. Whether you have a Wallace in your home or your life, the truth of God’s care for all his children is something we need on a daily basis.”
Jonathan D. Holmes, Executive Director, Fieldstone Counseling
“A Big Change Happened is a sweet reminder to children that the Lord is always near, guiding, watching over, and offering a very present help in the midst of big changes. Every child (and adult!) can benefit from its message.”
Julie Lowe, Licensed Professional Counselor; author of several books, including Safeguards and Child Proof
“In an ever-changing world, A Big Change Happened is a timely story that will help children acknowledge the feelings that come with change, while pointing them to the truth that God knows them, loves them, and is with them always. Although life may change, God never will.”
Sarah Walton, Author of The Long Road Home
“Change can be scary for children, and they need to know they are not alone. In Darby Strickland’s book, A Big Change Happened, children hear the truth of God’s nearness in the midst of change through the delightful story of Wallace the whale. This book will be a great conversation starter and a means of encouragement to children who are worried about change.”
Beth M. Broom, Executive Director, Bridgehaven Counseling Associates; executive director, Christian Trauma Healing Network
“This charming book is sure to be a comfort and encouragement for children who are nervous about life’s changes. Whether it's moving to a new house, starting a new school, or working through a change in their regular routine, Wallace’s story doesn’t just calm their fears—it gently directs their hearts toward trusting God during uncertainty. The melody of Psalm 139 is woven beautifully throughout and then brought to the forefront for parents to use to teach their children about God's constant presence and care. This book is a must-have for families going through any transition.”
Eliza Huie, Licensed Professional Counselor; author of Count Yourself Calm, Teens and Anxiety, and Trauma Aware
“Whether a child is navigating a move or other significant changes, Wallace offers a gentle and beautiful story that reassures young hearts of the security, comfort, and magnitude of God’s love. It’s a valuable resource for both families and churches.”
Korrie Johnson, Founder, Good Book Mom; children’s book reviewer
“Darby Strickland’s book is a valuable resource for parents, grandparents, and ministry leaders, helping children navigate life changes. Through Wallace Whale’s relatable questions and the book’s beautiful illustrations, it gently points readers to God’s faithful love and promises. Ideal for encouraging faith during difficult times, this book is both comforting and practical—perfect to keep and share with others. Buy several to keep on hand!”
Jeanette C. Simpson, Director of Children’s Ministry, St. Andrews Presbyterian Church, Columbia, SC
“In a world full of uncertainty, children and their caregivers need tools that help them navigate necessary changes and disruptive challenges in ways that promote curiosity and growth. A Big Change Happened gives language and story to help those transitions anchoring them in the forever of God’s love and care.”
Leslie Vernick, Speaker; relationship coach; author of The Emotionally Destructive Marriage and The Emotionally Destructive Relationship
“Change is hard. It doesn't matter if we're big or little, young or old. In A Big Change Happened, Darby Strickland uses the endearing Wallace Whale to help children rest in God's presence amidst change. Make this a part of your bedtime routine and your children will have the foundation they need for a lifetime of changes.”
Brad Hambrick, Pastor of Counseling, The Summit Church; author of Transformative Friendships
“This touching story of Wallace Whale’s journey into the unknown is built on the bedrock truths of Psalm 139—God is with us everywhere we go, no matter how new or scary the experience we face. It's an excellent resource for families facing changes large and small: deeply encouraging, beautifully illustrated, and profoundly true. Highly recommend!”
Sarah Reju, Author of Jesus Saves and The Wheelies series
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“Even on the other side of the sea he will hold you close. God will guide you wherever you go. He goes before you and behind you, and he is right beside you too!” A Big Change Happened is the story of little Wallace the Whale who is very happy in the warm blue sea near the island where he eats, plays and sings with his Mama and friends. One day, Mama whale announces that they will be leaving for the north soon. Wallace is worried and asks Mama lots of questions. Mama reminds Wallace throughout the story that wherever you go, God’s love will be with you. The Mama’s reassurances to Wallace are from my favorite Psalm (139). This book is such a great way to connect with your children over big emotional they might have because of big changes in their lives. The illustrations are beautifully colorful and engaging for little ones. I love how this book handles the topic of big changes so gently and with so much biblical truth. Highly recommend this one if you have big changes going on right now!