"What does it take for lasting change to take root in your life?" This is the question Timothy Lane and Paul David Tripp set out to answer in How People Change. This book has many strengths.
First, it is filled with illustrations and examples of real people with real struggles and how the principles laid out in the book could or did effect real change in their lives.
Second, it is very practical. From the beginning the authors make it clear that real gospel change comes through God's grace in a Christian's life. But that grace means that people can work toward seeing real and lasting Christ-honoring change happen. Using Jeremiah 17:5-10 as the foundation, Lane and Tripp lay out the principles of Heat (situations), Thorns (sinful responses), Cross (gospel realities), and Fruit (godly responses). The principles they describe and questions they pose are helpful for the reader and for the counselor looking to help others.
Third, they tie all of their principles to the Bible. In every chapter, Lane and Tripp use the Bible as the foundation for a principle or as a case study for the principle being worked out. Since their premise is that real change only occurs through God's grace in the gospel, they rightly let the Bible speak into their principles and exhortations.
Fourth, it is easily readable. Whether you want to read it from cover-to-cover or use it more a resources guide, the book is clear, simple, yet deep. The new Christian, mature Christian, and non-Christian can all approach the book with confidence that they will gain something from the material.
The structure of the book is simple and helpful:
1. The Problem (chapters 1 & 2): there exists a gap in understanding of the gospel for most Christians that leads to a reliance on counterfeit hopes to give meaning and satisfaction in this life as they wait for Christ to return.
2. The Solution (chapters 3-5): Christians need to have a right understanding of their "final destination" in order to rightly understand life in the here and now. Eternity defines and explains the present. And where the Christian is going is to be with their Groom, Jesus Christ. Real and lasting change comes by a Person not a program or performance. And the Bride of Christ needs the community of Christ to help bring about real and lasting change. God's grace in Christ often pours through the church.
3. Practical Application (chapters 6-14): Here the authors lay out the formula of Jeremiah 17 and then give ample detail and explanation of what each element means and how it is rightly applied in daily life.
4. Illustrations (chapters 15-16): the authors provide illustrations of how a marriage and a church applied the principles of the book that brought about real and lasting change.
Overall, this is a good book for all to read (Christians in particular). It has been both a challenging and an encouraging read for me. It has provided me with ways to evaluate the way and reasons why I respond to particular situations the way I do. It has also given me tools and resources to be a better friend, counselor, and discipler.